Whether it is relationships or our physical world around us, change has become the natural order. Day becomes night, winter becomes spring, memory cards replace photographic film, IPods have replaced CD players, and now my better half is looking at an electronic book reader to replace her paperbacks.
In the professional services world, like our CPA firm, the closest relationships bring about the largest amount of business for us. Therefore, we do our best to deepen our relationships—for our personal as well as business reasons.
Many of us say that we accept that everything is constantly changing, yet many of us refuse to accept that premise in an incredibly crucial area of our lives—our attitudes about ourselves and our lives. Often we hear or say to ourselves, “I know I could get so much more accomplished if I could only get more organized and stay focused on one thing at a time…but, I’ll never get organized, that’s just the way I am.”
The fact is we can change our habits, and we can change our outlook, which is what has to happen first. We need to believe that as everything changes, so can you. If we continue to say or think “that’s just the way I am,” then an artificial barrier keeps you from accomplishing what you ultimately would like to accomplish.
Physical strength will not knock down the barrier. It will take a shift in your attitude; a shift in your way of thinking; and most importantly, a shift in your beliefs. A shift from “It’s just the way I am” to “Everything changes…and so can I.”



